damn that hella creepy. stupid stalkers these days have no life. haha but yea hey thats a nice picture of tony haha

There’s a Khmer store in Logan that sells pretty Khmer outfits – for traditional and formal wear - and the prices are not bad either. Check them out!

I don’t know the name of the store – it’s a Passport Services near Bungert Video, about 2 or 3 doors down (I don’t think there’s a sign indicating that they sell Khmer clothes but they do). Sorry, that's all I know, good luck!

forreal. .. . hella creepy -x\

good luck looking for some khmer dresses; sorry i can't help xP

oi. just from BR, looking at xangas. yours is really original. i really like it.

anyway, i hope things get better for you. =/...we always hit these points in life.. keep your head up high, and a smile on your face.

--cynthia

will you im me?  lol... i know how you feel.  but alex said he called tony too.. and he didn't pick up.  i don't think it's you.  he hasn't returned alex's call yet either.

Awww, Sal sal, I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. Don't worry, Nancy will always be on your side! =) *kiss* all better =D

sally sally sally...hang in there.dont let this bother you yet. wait until you find out everything .and dont you go jumping to conclusion now. and men SHOULD NOT be called woman...thats a mockery!!!! if you wana talk...you know you can always come to hai..im always here for ya..-=)

ppl have tendency to forget what they have until it's gone. (or they lose it) too bad we cant learn from others mistakes, gotta find out for ourselves i guess.

sorry to hear about the phone.

Where is Tony? He completes me.

trashing things is the cambodian side of us... lol i do the same with much more expensive stuff then feel stupid later = )

am i gonna get inform too??

what a douche bag trying to take advantage of my woman while shes distraught.

u gotz commentz

u got propz

too much xanga hopping, keep this up and you'll have as many accounts as i do, no wait, you already do, heh, gotta make more new ones now...

prOps =]

love the new layout....actually i've always loved all ur layouts =) even the ones u make for ppl. i need some skills like urs

i saw you on blogring.net and i saw your pictures and dang. your good. what kind of camera do you use? i use a minolta super t plus. you?

Everytime I come here there's a new layout and they just keep getting better and better! If I posted more I'd get you to do my page but I have this nasty habit of disappearing for months at a time haha.

Yero wassup, haven't been here in a while, just wanted to leave my mark, props, i like wat u doin with ya page, well come check me out ights and dun forgot to prop me too. take care

p.s. really hot layout... i like

Mangoes mangoes....girl u and ur many many many layouts....how do u do it? hehee...wish i could do this stuff..but o well..i guess i ll jus turn to you when i need something..*ahem* need something!!!! u get my other thingy done yet dork???

By Sallie Kim and Shannon Stockdale
©2005 The Yale Daily News
April 14, 2005

A week ago, InSight, the only Asian-American women's organization on campus, gathered for a weekly dinner meeting, and the topic of conversation turned to the prevalence of the "Asian fetish" in American culture. We discussed the social significance of this obsessive sexual fixation on Asian women in a larger context, including the stereotyped portrayal of Asian women in the media and its relation to the growing mail-order bride industry.

What we didn't realize at the time of the discussion was the disgusting form that this fetish had taken on a nearby college campus. Recently, Princeton graduate student Michael Lohman admitted to police that he had been silently terrorizing more than 50 Asian women on campus by clipping snippets of their hair, spraying them with his urine and pouring his semen or urine in their drinks at university dining halls when they weren't looking. After three years of these repulsive acts, investigators finally caught up with and arrested Lohman last week. They searched his campus apartment and found stolen underwear and women's hair stuffed into mittens that he had been using for sexual self-gratification.

Many might discredit this news as an isolated incident of perversity, but the fact is that there is a pattern in which Asian women are targeted for sexual fetishes, harassment and assaults, even on college campuses. For example, in 2000, two Japanese college women were abducted, raped, videotaped and told that if they told anybody what had happened, the videotapes would be sent to their fathers. The three white assailants admitted targeting Asian women precisely because they had a sexual fetish for "submissive" Asian women, but also because they believed that this same submissiveness and cultural shame would prevent the women from reporting the assaults. In 2002, N.C. State University student Lili Wang was stalked and murdered by Richard Borrelli Anderson, a white classmate who was infatuated with her and had admitted to a colleague that he had an Asian fetish.

Though it may be difficult to identify the exact origins of violence targeted at Asian women, there is no denying that media portrayal of this minority population has had an effect on building preconceived notions and shaping stereotypes of Asian women as passive, exotic and more easily dominated. Images of the Japanese Geisha girl, the South Asian seductress and the China doll pervade American culture and add to the misconception of Asian women. This has had disturbing results. For instance, in 2002, Jennifer Lynn Gossett and Sarah Byrne conducted a content-analysis study of 31 pornographic Web sites that advertised scenes depicting the rape or torture of women, and found that nearly half of the sites used depictions of Asian women as the rape victim.

Not only are Asian women disproportionately targeted in sex crimes, but they are also the least likely to report such incidents. Sex crimes are already grossly underreported, with only an estimated 26 percent of rape victims coming forward, but the percentage of Asian women who do so is even lower, at a mere 8 percent. Police hope that the Asian women will come forward about their harassment in the Princeton incident; however, the statistics tell us that it is not likely.

It is important not to lose sight of the 50-plus victims at Princeton. All of us have stories that we hear about, know about or have lived through. It is important for us to go beyond simply being outraged at such incidents and make sure we do something concrete, particularly in a way that establishes a support structure for victims. We need to be victim-centered in our approach, focusing on building community support for victims. Part of the reason why Asian women are not likely to come forward about their victimization in sex crimes is that many Asian cultures put the blame for such crimes on the women. They feel a sense of shame for having been the target of such attacks and feel that they might have done something wrong to invite the attack. It is these ideas and this culture that we must fight and abolish. The stigmatization of rape victims must end.

It may be easy to disregard the widespread existence of an Asian fetish as an "annoying" but essentially benign phenomenon that does not need to be taken seriously. But, as the Princeton episode demonstrates, we need to be aware of the violent and perverse forms it can take and its serious ramifications.

Kim is a senior in Calhoun College. Stockdale is a junior in Silliman College. They are co-chairs of InSight, the Yale chapter of the National Asian Pacific American Women's Forum.

See also:
Princeton Grad Student Accused Of Lewd Behavior Toward Women
Racial ''Infatuation'' Leads to Murder of Chinese American Student

gosh how many xanga names do u have.....hehe..sorry didnt mean to seem like im stalking...